Vibrators and love at a distance, is it possible?

Long distance relationship! Is there an App for that?

Ha the vibrating panties controlled by someone else. We've all seen this in a movie and we were intrigued and excited by the possibilities. Let's face it, there is something very sexy and exciting about letting your partner take control of their vibrator.

Now that has evolved a bit, it is no longer just controlling with a wireless controller, cellular applications are getting involved. In this little blog, I will try to demystify the functioning and the possibilities offered by sex toys with application. I will also share my favorites with you at the end.

Where and when used:

The beauty of remote control accessories is that there are endless possibilities for their uses. We can play solo or in duo in the comfort of our bedroom, play naughty games in public in a discreet way and even stay sexually connected with our partner who is on another continent.

Play solo or duo:

Remote vibrators allow you to keep your hands free in a way. No need to manually change functions on the device or be encumbered by a wire connecting the controller and the toy. You can even let your partner choose the functions for you while you enjoy them to the fullest

App-controlled sex toys also allow you to completely customize the settings (explained in detail later). Basically, you will experience a unique and exceptional ride every time.

Discreet public play:

Naughty games in public are a popular fantasy for many couples.

Picture this: you go out to a restaurant with friends but decide to spice up the evening with the addition of a discreet vibrator. You and your partner share this sensual little secret. Suddenly something starts to vibrate, it takes control of the toy and you are there among the friends experiencing incredible sensations while trying to keep control of yourself. A hot, humid and exciting experience that prepares for a scorching end to the evening.

In the remote sex toys there are accessories specially designed to be discreet such as the Little Secret by Satisfyer, the Lush by Lovense or the chorus by We-Vibe.

Long distance play:

In 2021, distance is not a good reason to end your sex life. Whether your partner is going on a business trip or your lover is in another country, app sex toys are a real blessing. They keep you connected. Apps usually offer the option of having a chat or video conversation while you leave control of the device to your partner.

There are also toys that can be used in pairs, even from a distance, such as the Nora and the Max2 from Lovense. We can obviously make other combinations of pleasure like 2 Nora.

Here is a small example of the Nora and Max2:

Max2: When you slide the masturbator over your penis, the head of his sex toy begins to rotate. The faster you move the toy up and down, the faster the movements of its vibrator!

Nora: When you move your vibrator, her sex toy's air pump starts to act, simulating vaginal contractions. The speed of your movements dictates the level of contractions and vibrations he feels.

I find it really interesting that two sex toys can synchronize like this and that the partners can give each other pleasure even when they are far away. Ha technology, we like it!

Types of remote sex toys:

Controlled with wireless controller:

Some wireless controller vibrators have ranges between 25 and 30 feet, while others are more intended for “same room” use. These vibrators allow a short distance control with preprogrammed functions (ex: slow, medium, high, pulsations and rhythms).

Good seller example at Sensations Plus

Controlled via a cellular application:

Vibrators or masturbators with an app have no distance limit. They also offer more features and customizable options which we love. They can be used in two ways. Short distance control (bluetooth distance) or long distance control. Here are some companies that offer apps and that are available from Sensations Plus.

Short distance control:

It turns your cell phone into a wireless controller to control your accessory and enjoy all the benefits of the app. How it works? Your accessory will be connected to the phone's bluetooth. If you move the sex toy too far away from the bluetooth it will disconnect. We must stay within the scope of it.

Long distance control:

The app allows you to give control of your sex toy to someone from miles away. You can even use them from continent to continent from Gatineau to Paris. There is no limit to the distance. Both partners must download the application. The person with the sex toy must synchronize it via the app and bluetooth. Once it's done, she can invite a friend to control the accessory remotely.

In stores I have often heard people say, "I'm going to turn on the vibrator when she's in the office, or not expect it." Sorry, remote games don't quite work that way. On the other hand, if you invite your partner and he takes control of the toy, he can pause the vibrator and start it at any time. You are then at his mercy to explore new sensual pleasures. So, in summary, if you do not invite your partner, he or she will not be able to remotely start the toy at will.

Advantages of toys with applications

You will be amazed at what you can do with your sex toy and its mobile application. Functionalities may vary from application to application, but in general they are all similar. Certain have little more obviously. (I will tell you about it below) For the examples shown today I will use the images from the We-Vibe We-Connect application.

Show product charge:

We can see the % of the battery and be sure not to run out during our naughty games. What could be more frustrating than running out of battery when you are close to orgasm.

Programmed reading:

This is a list of vibration sequences created by the company, the default vibrations. You can still customize the programmed reading a bit, though, since you can choose the motor intensity. If it is a dual motor sex toy like the We-Vibe Chorus you can also control the 2 motors separately. Depending on how I feel I can adjust the power, which makes my erotic accessory really versatile.

Custom vibrations:

You will be able to create personalized vibration sequences and save them as well as share them or use vibration sequences created by strangers. I find it really cute when it comes to attention when my boyfriend takes the time to create a personalized series of vibration sequences for me. It's like a little gift just for me.

Direct / touch control:

Touch your phone screen with your finger to make your sex toy vibrate to your heart's content. I have to admit that it’s not my favorite option, I don’t feel like it’s a smooth vibration.

Ambient sound:

Very interesting during exit, your application captures ambient sounds and transforms them into vibration. You will vibrate to the sound of the atmosphere. Try it during a concert it adds quite a thrill I tell you;)

Music:

Turn your music into vibration from the music in your phone. Choose your favorite songs to rock your partner. Some applications even allow you to create playlists. No need to choose this or that vibration, the music takes care of everything. Put down the phone and enjoy the moment.

Others:

These (other) functions are available with some applications.

Live video and chat while you use the toy with your partner who is far away. No need to log into Skype in addition to the app. Everything is in one place.

Synchronize two remote toys at the same time, like Lovense brand products. For example the Nora a vaginal and clitoral vibrator and the Max2 a male masturbator, it's a perfect duo for long-distance sex. Everyone uses it on their own, but you can both experience the same orgasmic sensations in real time.

The interactive cam option allows use on websites like Chaturbate, CamSoda or Flirt4Free. You can give customers full control over your vibrator, greatly increasing their enjoyment (and your cash flow). Lovense brand products are very popular in this area. Since the battery life is longer than other brands and the connection is also more reliable.

Interactive videos that take control of your toy to sync it to real-time video. You can use the Feel Connect 3.0 app and scan the QR code of the interactive video you want to see. Several pornography sites now offer this service as Porn Hub.

How to choose a remote vibrator

You have to ask yourself what use you want to make of it, what parts of the body you want to stimulate: vaginal, clitoris, anal or penis.

Is it a toy to tease yourself in a public place like a restaurant or a toy to stimulate yourself in a private place.

We hear that a Wand vibrator or a masturbator controlled remotely with the application is not very discreet for playing games in public. On the other hand, a small panty vibrator is more practical and comfort

The best choice will be the one that suits your needs and tastes. Whatever you choose, just make sure that you and your partner are comfortable with the application and the style of play. As long as you are open to communication and stay on the same page, it shouldn't. not delay before the fun really begins!

My discoveries and favorites

For a reliable and easy to operate application defenitely the Lovense products. This app is very intuitive. They are the ones who have the best reviews on the web.

The Lush has been very popular with porn movies and Cam Girls. It is an excellent choice for vaginal stimulation and comes to rest directly on the G-spot by its shape. Excellent for discreet public play or for the bedroom.

Personally, I really liked the Nora rabbit vibrator with its rotating head.

Satisfyer offers sensational erotic accessories at low prices and does not spare the quality of its products. There is also a lot of choice as to which product is controlled with application.

My favorite is the Little Secret vibrator because of its shape (one part rests on my clitoris and the other end stimulates vaginal entry), its magnet to secure the toy to the panties and its little extra handle.

My boyfriend's favorite cock ring, the Powerful One Ring. I like to use app to create personalized vibrations for him or to make him vibrate to the sounds of music.

We can't talk about We-Vibe without talking about the Chorus, an exceptional toy with multiple functions for the couple.

We can use it during penetration with our partner. This is the ultimate G-spot and clitoral stimulation with penetration from our partner. These two adjustment points are a must for comfort.

It can also be used as a discreet remote vibrator for naughty games. There aren't many toys as versatile as the Chorus in my opinion.

Ha and I haven't told you about the squeeze controller. You can create vibrations by squeezing the controller, it's different and original.

In my research I discovered interactive videos where our sex toy synchronizes with the video. I find it just brilliant.

Lovense and svakom offer this option with all their erotic products which have one application.

I'm not a man but I have to admit that I would like to try the Sam neo masturbator by Svakom in interactive video with sucking and vibration or the Alex neo with the thrusting movement.

In conclusion:

I hope you have found in this reading a lot of information about remote sex toys and application sex toys. Small bonus if I have inspired you with new naughty games to do with your partner. All the products mentioned are available in our Sensations Plus Boutiques and on our website: www.sensationsplus.com or with the Sensations Plus application.