All about the prostate #MOVEMBER

Forget the taboos and try to stimulate the prostate!

Stimulating the prostate is having pleasure at your fingertips, an orgasm totally different from ejaculation, The P spot is regularly compared to the G spot. More intense, longer and deeper orgasms, felt throughout the body.

Prostate orgasm is often described as incredible, overwhelming, powerful and ecstatic.

What if I am not comfortable with this practice? First of all, even if the description is tempting to start your adventure, I suggest that you feel ready to try it. You need to want it, because not all of us are attracted to anal stimulation.

No more taboos! In 2021, we are forgetting the taboos related to sexual orientation when it comes to male anal stimulation. The prostate exists in the body of anyone born with a penis, which means they have a prostate. So no matter what your gender identity or sexual orientation, if you have a prostate it means you can get pleasure from it.

What are the benefits of prostate stimulation?

Regular massage of the prostate helps achieve stronger erections and greatly reduces the risk of cancer.
In addition, the prostate gland is soothed, it helps to have better blood circulation in this area and it improves bladder control.
Without ignoring the fact that prostate orgasm is regularly compared to a woman's orgasm, it is deeper, longer and more powerful than ejaculation alone.

Did you know that?

71% of heterosexual women would be ready to stimulate the prostate of their spouses.
22% of them have already tried the experience.
2% of them say they stimulate their partner's prostate regularly.
Strengthening the perineum allows for longer and more intense prostate orgasms.

Where is it?

The prostate is located below the bladder and passes through the urethra, which is a duct that runs from the bladder to the end of the penis and is used to evacuate urine and semen. It is also bordered by the rectum, which explains why the anus is the wonderful little tunnel that leads to this point P.

From the entrance of the anus to the rectum, it will take you about 3 inches to reach it and it is shaped like a small, soft nut.

Hygiene & lubrication?

When you want to indulge in anal pleasures it is important to think about hygiene. The anal shower is optional, you don't have to do one. On the other hand, it is important to have emptied your intestines and to have done an external washing.

Lubrication, it is not optional, if you want to avoid friction, because if you did not know the anus does not lubricate naturally and saliva does not have the best lubricating properties. Saliva dries quickly and this is not ideal.

I suggest you use either an anal water-based lubricant if you are using sextoy or a silicone-based lubricant if you are not using any sextoy.

If you are with a new partner, remember to use a condom, dental dam or latex glove.

If you use an erotic accessory clean them well before and after use.

The difference between lubricants? Water-based lubricant dries over time, while silicone-based lubricant does not dry out, but be aware that silicone lubricant is not compatible with silicone accessories.

The steps to follow? By hand.

With or without an accessory, take the time to breathe, relax and stay in relaxed mode, so your sphincter will also be in rest mode.
We start by massaging the outside of the anus. Also note that the area between the testicles and the anus is highly erogenous.
When you are ready insert a lubricated finger so that it is pointing upwards in the pelvis.
Touching your prostate (it's shaped like a soft nut) doesn't apply too much pressure, give it time to get used to this new sensation.
Then you can gently remove your finger to gently back and forth or you can use the “come here” technique. This technique consists of putting your finger in the shape of a hook and making small bend / unfold by pressing on the prostate.
Let yourself be guided by your sensations or guide your partner during the process by pressing more or less hard according to your tastes.

The steps with an accessory, such as a prostate plug ?!

Start by choosing a prostate stimulator of your choice that is suitable for the size you want to insert and with the vibration or non-vibration option.

The first step would be to thoroughly clean your accessory with an antibacterial cleaner. Then, we put in relaxation mode to have a relaxed sphincter.
We start by massaging the outside of the anus. Also note that the area between the testicles and the anus is highly erogenous.
When you're ready, insert a lubricated finger into your anus to dilate slightly if you want to do things smoothly depending on the size of your accessory. If you feel ready, put some lubricant on your accessory and insert it quietly.
You don't need to move back and forth. As the prostate stimulators are naturally curved, it will press directly on it.
Contract the rectum and perineum muscles to create natural movement with your accessory. With this movement you will have a pressure to exert on your prostate.
The advantage of vibration is that you won't have to contract your muscles a lot to feel the effects of your accessory.

For a successful stimulation:

Don't forget your lubricant, it's important.
Give preference to accessories specially designed for anal stimulation, they are equipped with a stopper to avoid incidents.
Curved accessories designed for the prostate provide more stimulation.
Give yourself time, you might not reach prostate orgasm the first time and it might take a little longer.
Vary the positions and listen to the sensations of your body.
Do not hesitate to combine stimulation such as masturbating at the same time as you stimulate the prostate.

With that I hope the pleasures of the prostate will bring you to 7th heaven.