Strap-on & Harness #GUIDE101
Choosing a strap-on or harness for partnerly pleasure is an important decision that requires several factors to be taken into account to ensure comfort, pleasure and satisfaction for both partners.
To choose the right strap-on or harness, it's important to evaluate a number of criteria, such as your desired use and your expectations. It may be worth asking yourself the following questions:
- Does the wearer have a penis or a vagina? This may influence the type of harness to maximize comfort.
- Do I want to vary the size of my dildos?
- Will the harness be used by more than one person? Ex: You're a couple and want to buy just one harness.
Here's a detailed guide to help you make the best choice
First of all, what is a harness / strap-on?
A harness, or strap-on, is an accessory commonly used for erotic play. It consists of a harness worn around the hips, often with adjustable straps, to which a dildo or other sex toy can be attached. The strap-on can be used to simulate penetration, whether between partners of the same or different sexes. It can be used for a variety of sexual practices, offering a new dimension of pleasure and variety in intimate relations.
1. Harness types
This will enable you to choose the type of model that suits your preferences and maximizes your experience.
- Jockstrap harness: This harness features two bands around the thighs at the back of the buttocks and a belt, offering great stability and a more intimate feel. Many like the comfort of entering with free access to the buttocks.
- Brief harness: Similar to an undergarment, it's often more comfortable and can be more discreet.
- G-string harness: More minimalist, it offers a feeling of freedom and lightness.
- Harness with hollow dildo: Specially designed for people with a penis, the dildo is hollow to allow the penis to be inserted.
- Harness with integrated dildo: This type of harness is designed with a dildo already attached. You won't be able to change the dildo model, and you'll have different models, either single or double (for double penetration).
- Harness for double penetration: This type of harness lets you insert two dildos for double penetration. Some harnesses will penetrate both the wearer and the partner, while others are designed to penetrate the anus and vagina simultaneously.
- Strapless Strap-on: Is a device designed for penetration between partners without the use of straps or a belt.
*Parenthesis for the Strapless strap-on which is a very interesting harness, but I suggest knowing the advantages and considerations of this model :
Advantages
- Freedom of movement: Without straps or belts, partners enjoy greater freedom of movement and more intimate body contact.
- Stimulation for both partners: This type of harness provides simultaneous stimulation for the person wearing it and the one being penetrated, increasing mutual pleasure.
- Often equipped with one or more motors to stimulate both partners with vibration.
- Ease of use: Unlike traditional harnesses that require adjustments, a beltless harness can be quicker and easier to put on.
Considerations
- Fit and comfort: For the harness to stay in place and be comfortable, it's important that the wearer is able to hold the inserted part in place with the pelvic muscles. Otherwise, you'll need to support it by hand.
- Practice and communication: It may take a little practice and communication between partners to find the angles and positions that work best.
2. Materials
- Leather: Durable and frequently associated with a more fetishized look, but may require special care.
- Neoprene: Flexible and comfortable, often water-resistant.
- Fabric: Perhaps softer and more comfortable, but less durable than leather or neoprene.
- Silicone: Easy to clean and hypoallergenic, often used for parts in direct contact with the body.
3. Comfort and adjustability
- Adjustable shoulder straps: Make sure the harness has adjustable shoulder straps for a perfect fit, but also check the maximum fit according to the size you'll need.
- Lumbar support: A harness with good lumbar support can improve comfort during prolonged use.
- Cushioning or padding: Look for harnesses with pads or padding in strategic areas for added comfort.
4. Ring compatibility
- Interchangeable rings: Some harnesses allow you to change rings to fit different sizes of dildo if you want to multiply sizes.
- Type of interchangeable rings: Rings are mostly made of silicone or metal.
- Diameter of rings: Make sure the rings are compatible with the size of dildos you wish to use.
5. Ease of use
- Easy fitting: Choose a harness that is easy to put on and take off.
- Closure system: Buckle, Velcro or snap closures can vary in terms of ease of use and safety.
6. Design and aesthetics
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Personal aesthetics: Choose a design that appeals to you and your personal taste.
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Check if it has any little extras, such as a built-in pocket for a clitoral vibrator.
- Discretion: If you prefer a discreet harness, opt for neutral colors and a sober design.
Size and fit
- Proper sizing: Check manufacturers' size guides to choose a harness that fits your body type.
- Secure fit: A well-fitted harness should be tight enough to stay in place, but comfortable enough to allow free movement.
8. Budget
- Price: Harnesses vary considerably in price. Define your budget before making a purchase.
- Quality vs. price: Sometimes it's worth spending a little more for a better quality harness that will last longer and offer more comfort.
By following these tips, you'll be better equipped to choose a harness that suits your needs and preferences, ensuring a more pleasurable and satisfying intimate experience for you and your partner. Above all, if you're unsure or need advice, ask our team to give you suggestions based on your needs to guarantee maximum satisfaction.
