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Pegging for beginners

Pegging has grown in popularity enormously over the past few years. More and more popular in pornographic cinema, pegging is a common practice and it less taboo.

What is Pegging?

Traditionally, Pegging refers to a man who receives anal penetration from a partner who is wearing a Harness or Strap-On fitted with a dildo. On the other hand, you should know that this practice does not know sex or gender, so it does not matter the sexual orientation or the sex of the person who wears the accessory or receives the penetration nowadays Pegging will be the term generally used.

Is it really satisfactory?

I would say yes, but you have to be well prepared like any anal penetration.

The entrance to the anus contains a lot of nerve endings which is very stimulating for the person receiving a well-prepared penetration.

For men, there is a little extra ... The prostate, known as the P-spot, is a bit like the equivalent of the male G-spot. Extremely receptive, stimulation of the prostate causes men to have stronger, longer and deeper orgasms, on average 33% more intense than ejaculation alone.

In addition to the sensations that will be different, it is common to also see the game of domination that there is in the heterosexual couple who practice pegging, the woman then takes control by dominating the man.

What are the materials required to start pegging?

To start pegging, you will need a few accessories such as:

A dildo
A harness
Lubricant

Choose the right dildo!

When choosing a dildo for pegging it can be tempting to go for an all-in-one, that is, a harness already fitted with a dildo. Personally, I do not recommend it, as it is not always suitable for what we are looking for especially for anal penetration.

In addition, you have to know how to ask yourself the right questions to know what are you looking for?

Do I want a realistic model or not?
Do I want to penetrate my partner with a harness fitted with a dildo or do I want to have a Strap-On that will penetrate me at the same time as I penetrate him?
The size, do I want it big, wide, small, short, etc.?
Do I want a vibration or not?
What type of texture am I looking for?

Many questions to ask yourself to find the model that will satisfy you and allow you to have a good time.

A word of advice, opt for a silicone model, non-porous, not too flexible to fit well and always take the time to wash it before and after use.

Choose the right harness!

The Harness is also sold in several formats. You will have some that look like underwear, others will be leather or hands free.

When choosing a harness, you should aim for comfort, but also to feel sexy when wearing it.

I really like the models that will lean under the buttock, they are comfortable with leaving the anus clear if you want to reverse the roles. Plus, check the specs and sizes to make sure it will fit properly and do exactly what you want it to.

The hands-free harness (It has an internal vaginal membrane and a second that emerges to penetrate, no harness surrounds the object, it holds with the force of the muscles of the vagina) meanwhile will require a little support depending on the strength of the woman's pelvic floor. This means that some women will be able to wear it and it will stay in place, while for other women it will have to be supported with the hands.

Lubricant is very important!

The anus does not lubricate naturally, so you absolutely need a lubricant to avoid friction, otherwise the pleasure will not be there.

Do not hesitate to add it before and during to avoid a painful experience, the lubricant will make the sensations more felt and much more pleasant.

I suggest you use a water-based lubricant, preferably an anal penetration type that will be thicker, longer lasting, and compatible with your erotic accessories.

Let's get down to business ... How to do it?

Communication.

Communicating is important, expressing your expectations, your desires, your fears and your limits in this new adventure. Also take the time to communicate before and after to make sure everything is to your liking and to assess possible improvements to be made or disputes that are being tried.

Do not start the penetration directly with the dildo.

It is a good idea before putting on your harness and dildo to penetrate your partner with your fingers and anal plugs. These will allow you to start things smoothly, facilitate penetration, dilate the anus and enjoy anal penetration even more when the time comes with your dildo.

Preliminary above all!

We warm up with foreplay to get in the mood, your partner will need to feel aroused and relaxed to enjoy penetration.

So, abuse foreplay of all kinds, going from oral sex to vaginal penetration (if possible) to anal play with fingers, anal accessory and finally the harness. In short, follow your instincts and your desires with a lot of lubricant!

Take it easy

Take it easy when you're ready to move on to penetrating again with plenty of lube.

Listen to your partner and let them guide you if necessary. Remember, the disadvantage of Strap-On is that the penetrating partner doesn't feel the sensations, so go slow and listen to your partner. We go in a bit and wait to allow time for the partner who is penetrating to get used to it, and we continue to do this little by little until you are ready to gain a little more vigor.

The positions.

Let the person who will be penetrated choose the position if you are new to pegging.

The position of the rider, the man over the woman wearing the Strap-On, will allow her to control penetration with comfort.

On the back, the knees bent towards the stomach will be another nice option, as will the spoon.

Finally, Doggy Style is a nice position, but it will not allow the person to penetrate to be able to control the intensity, depth and speed.

Following these little tips, all you have to do is find your rhythm.