How I learned to love anal sex: my journey, my discoveries and my pleasures

If someone had told me a few years ago that I would one day write a blog about my appreciation of anal penetration, I would probably have laughed (a little nervously). For me, it was a subject shrouded in mystery, taboo and, I admit, a few fears. But with the right partner, lots of patience and gentle exploration, I discovered a pleasure I'd never have suspected.

Curiosity, my prime mover

My partner has always loved anal stimulation. He never hid the fact, and our intimate conversations helped me understand what a source of intense pleasure it was for him. He often talked about the pressure and the incredible sensations it gave him, especially with the stimulation of his prostate. Naturally, this aroused my curiosity. If he could enjoy it so much, why couldn't I?

I wasn't immediately ready to try anal penetration, but the idea began to grow on me. I wanted to make sure I was doing it for me, out of a desire to explore and not out of pressure. And that's when it all started.

The essential steps: patience and preparation

One of the first things I realized was that the anus isn't naturally lubricated like the vagina. So I needed a good lubricant to avoid any discomfort. I tested several textures and consistencies before finding my favorite: a silicone-based lubricant, perfect for this kind of play since it doesn't dry out quickly and ensures optimal glide.

Then I learned that you have to go gradually. I started with dilators small objects of various sizes designed to accustom the body to this new sensation. I used them on my own, at my own pace, often in addition to other games, so that it was always synonymous with pleasure and never apprehension.

Then came anal toysespecially vibrators. And then, revelation! The vibration provides incredible muscle relaxation and makes the experience so much more pleasurable. I loved the massage effect that a small vibrating plug could bring, and it helped me get used to the sensation.

The essential role of respect and communication

None of this would have been possible without one essential thing: trust and respect with my partner. He never pressured me, he listened to my limits and adapted to my pace. He reassured me, complimented me on my progress and always reminded me that my pleasure came first. This benevolence was a real key.

What's next?

Today, I can say that I really enjoy anal penetration. Not all the time, not systematically, but it's become an exciting and pleasurable option in our sexuality. I've discovered new sensations, a different way of experiencing pleasure, and above all, I've learned that exploration and patience open unsuspected doors.

So if you're curious too, my advice would be: take your time, equip yourself with the right accessories, listen to your body and choose a partner you can trust. Pleasure is a journey, and it deserves to be savored at your own pace. 💜